Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - 5 Easy Tips

If you decide you definitely want to get your ex girlfriend back, it is better to plan what steps you should take, rather than just hoping everything will be ok. Often breakups occur over silly things and neither of you want to stay apart. I have written 5 steps that are ways to let your girlfriend know that you still interested in being together and you want to rebuild your relationship in an honest way.Step 1. To learn how to get your ex girlfriend back, it is important to realize that playing too hard to get is not the way to go. Show interest in her, and look for ways where you can show her you want to be part of her life. Be subtle in your approach and do overwhelm her with communications of any sort.Step 2. Email is a good start to keep in touch. But you need to keep the messages light and friendly. This way she will not feel threatened and will answer you in a friendly manner. If you over do it she will simply back off. Remember light and friendly, do not interrogate her with questions.Step 3. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, stay away from other girls. Even if she says she is not interested she will be. Once she learns you have been out with other girls (and they always do) she will need a lot more convincing to go out with you again.Step 4. This step is very important, girls like to have their special moments remembered. Dates like birthdays, anniversaries and any other important event to them should be remembered by sending a card and a note, letting them know you have thought of them in a nice way not a threatening manner.Step 5. You can call or text your ex girlfriend, but it must been seen as friendly and that that you care about her as a person. This way she will not have to imagine you out with another girl having fun if you have text her saying most days you have worked late. Make sure of course that what you say is true. If she knows that you still think about her she will relax and start to confide more in you. This will lead to a meeting.As with most things relating to building relationships, getting your ex girlfriend back is not an exact science. However one of the most basic rules is keeping in touch , even on a very irregular basis it is important. Once that thread of contact is gone it is much harder to get it back. Remember it is important not to overdo the contact immediately. It will usually make her feel threatened.These are just a few steps that can be used in the beginning. When my relationship ended and I desperately wanted to get my ex boyfriend back I followed these basic steps and over time we started to communicate and build up our trust.To get your ex girlfriend back take these steps and continue to build up trust. No relationship will last without it.

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